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Matt Crossman's avatar

I can relate, especially to "crushed by the weight": "These last few years have found me crushed by the weight of my promises. I’m learning to say “no,” to channel my energy into fewer pursuits and higher quality."

Kim Cross's avatar

Debud and bloom on, Matt!!

Matt Crossman's avatar

Already done!

Katherine Williamson's avatar

Kim -- Loved the lessons learned from peony farming. Like you I have a black thumb when it comes to plants, but my daughter Julie and her husband Dave worked on an organic farm in Oregon, and Julie maintains a teaching garden at her school. All your lessons resonate with them! Thank you for distilling and sharing such insight!

-- Kitty

Kim Cross's avatar

Thanks Kitty! One of my peony sisters worked with kids learning to grow food on a nonprofit teaching farm in Florida. Very transformative work!

Renda Knapp's avatar

Love your post! I have a peony farm in Homer - Alyeska Flower farm - out East End.

Your story resonated with me so much. Thanks for sharing.

Kim Cross's avatar

Really?! We’re on Diamond Ridge. Maybe we’ll cross paths. I’m talking to the Homer library about teaching a free writing workshop this summer if you’re interested…

Kristi Lamont Ellis's avatar

What a particularly wonderful post. And what a great profile of you!

Now I want some of those pants.....

Final thought: I grew up calling them pee-own-ees. Might still do. :-)

Kim Cross's avatar

Thanks Kristi! The pants: the graphene material (my pair) is mid weight and would be good for fall/winter in the South but too hot for your summers. Check out the lightweight and COOLSWAP active cooling (wicking) fabrics for your summer gardening. https://dovetailworkwear.com/collections/coolswap-active-cooling-womens-workwear/products/day-x-coolswap-work-pants

Or

https://dovetailworkwear.com/collections/coolswap-active-cooling-womens-workwear/products/day-x-coolswap-work-pants

Would be my suggestions. The latter are sold out online but you can sometimes find them at a co-op where they sell workwear.

Jennifer Reed's avatar

Such a relatable piece! Thanks for sharing it. I used the word "unsustainable" just this morning in describing my workload to my husband. Maybe I should go work with the horticulture team at my botanical garden gig! Just kidding - it's like 100 degrees and 1000 percent humidity in Southwest Florida. Enjoy the North!

Kim Cross's avatar

I remember that knee-buckling humidity! I would not survive an hour of Florida weeding. Can you grow succulents in the AC?

Laura LeBleu's avatar

I’m so glad you are tending to your own field this summer. Thank you for sharing, my friend. ❤️❤️❤️

Kim Cross's avatar

Some days I cry in the peonies. They don’t seem to mind.

Daniel Troppy's avatar

That was a beautiful story Kim.

Riversteadt LaMoreaux's avatar

Wonderful post full of wisdom. Wishing you joy as you navigate these new life experiences. I love how you seek out what calls to your soul. As always, much love and admiration.

Kim Cross's avatar

Thanks River. It’s nonlinear and never dull.